Your 7 Dating Worries and How To Fix Them

It is normal for women and men to have stressy thoughts when it comes to the emotional complexities of relationships. If you didn’t, you’d be a robot. These are simple steps to fix your dating worries:


1. Your insecurity: He might not call you after a date.

Your fix: Wait two days, then call him. (If you phone 15 minutes after a date, you risk looking desperate. If you wait a week, you risk him doubting your interest.) His quick response (or lack thereof) will give you your answer – no need to agonize over him longer than necessary.


2. Your insecurity: He might just want you for sex.

Your fix: Use him just for sex. If you’re not down with that – don’t sleep with him. If you’re really worried that he might only be interest in banging, then have a conversation before you sneak into the sheets explaining what you want and expect (monogamy? breakfast in bed? $1 million?) from the person you’re sleeping with.

3. Your insecurity: He’s dating other women.
Your fix: Date other men. Please, I am begging you. Until you’ve both committed to each other completely, you should not give away your exclusivity (women do this constantly to their great detriment). Now, if you’re in a committed relationship and you think he’s playing you – see number five below.


4. Your insecurity: He’s not that interested.
Your fix: Time for some tough-love. If a guy is interested in you, he shows it. By calling you (before midnight), introducing you to his friends and showing up when he says he will. So if you’re insecure because he’s not doing these things and he may not be interested, you worry with good reason. It’s time to get way less interested in him. Cut off your attention and see how he responds – you’ll get an accurate reading on his level of interest within 48 hours of radio silence.


5. Your insecurity: He’s cheating on you.
Your fix: First, ask yourself if you have a good reason to worry about this. Is there someone in particular who concerns you? Has he cheated in the past? Or are your hormones causing you to imagine a telenovela’s worth of betrayal and abandonment for no good reason? If you have legit concerns, talk to him. Immediately. If you still feel uneasy, it could be time to take a breather from the relationship – for your sake and his.

6. Your insecurity: You’re not satisfying him in bed.


Your fix: Listen for his reaction, watch his face and feel his, um, response to what you’re doing. Then ask for feedback – both before the big event (with flirtatious, sexy questions on what exactly he likes) and during the deed (with more subtle yes/no, harder/softer, thisaway/thataway cues). Also encourage him to let you know what’s working and what’s not – that conversation on its own will be a huge turn-on.


7. Your insecurity: He’s not attracted to you anymore.
Your fix: There’s nothing less attractive than a girl who’s doubting her hotness. Give yourself a pep talk, some sexies undies and a dose of love from Lady Gaga: “When I wake up in the morning, I feel just like any other insecure 24-year-old girl," she says in Rolling Stone magazine. “Then I say, 'Bitch, you're Lady Gaga, you get up and walk the walk today.'" Also if you find out that you are getting less attracted to yourself, hit the gym, burn those calories, dress up more, and always listen to things that will elevate and make you happy.  Fill your mind with good thoughts. And your inner glow will radiate thus giving you an outer glow.

Accessories

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BLACK SILVER METAL PLATE BEAD LEAF DANGLE EARRINGS	RED FACETED GEMSTONE METAL CHAIN BRACELET	SILVER BLACK FACETED GEMSTONE NECKLACE EARRINGS SET
SILVER CLUSTER FAUX JEWELS NECKLACE EARRINGS SET	PURPLE MULTI BEADED BOW TIE BRACELET	MULTI RHINESTONE HALF CIRCLE DANGLE SHIMMER CHAIN EARRINGS
IVORY GOLD METAL PLATE BEAD LEAF DANGLE EARRINGS	IVORY FAUX PEARL THREE PIECE NECKLACE EARRINGS SET	IVORY FAUX PEARL THREE PIECE NECKLACE EARRINGS SET
GOLD ORANGE MULTI GEMSTONE CHAIN DANGLE EARRINGS	GOLD LOVE DOUBLE KNUCKLE FASHION RING	GOLD FLORAL DECOR INTERLOCKING RING NECKLACE SET
GOLD FLORAL CHAIN LINK RING BRACELET	BRONZE SPIKEY CHARM FACETED BEADED CHAIN NECKLACE SET	SILVER RHINESTONE LOCK KEY HEART PENDANT CHAIN & NECKLACE

Fashion Trends 2010

Summer 2010 Fashion Trends

The latest fashion looks on offer this 2010 concentrate on the continued trend for feminine dresses and associated pieces. These garments are in either soft sherbet pastels and bold brights, like those further below, or monochrome mixes making the best of contrasting black, white and grey.

Envisage sherbet colours, dresses, silk lace camisoles, pretty scallop edges, satin, lace, flounces, ribbons, bows and soft tones of shell pink.

Skirt Lengths for 2010

Hemlines for 2010 are on the knee and above the knee as well as calf length and maxi skirts. Take your pick as many manufacturers may advertise women modelling shorter skirts, but so often those models are quite tall. The average woman in UK at 5'4" will often find those same shorter looking modelled skirts fall on their knee. These skirts shown feature plain and patterned fabrics. Two of them show digital prints and the longer skirt has bunches of roses.

Saturday Pictures

I had nothing to do this weekend. My music teacher called and cancelled my piano class for the day. I had various plans for my saturday ut seems none was working. And my phone is infected with virus (that is what i get for too much downloading from the net) so i couldnt receive any calls today.

I grabbed my purse to the mall, gonna get a look around what they have to offer, then picked up some stuffs. This i what i came up with for the weekend:

Gown from Nichii
Shoes from Nine West
Piling up your hair always go with formal wears, heels too. There is nothing more annoying than someone wearing a formal wear and slippers. I guess that is just my perception.

I'm loving the flashy 'blues'. The color blue often stands for relaxation, fidelity, happiness, wisdom, faith, peace, patience, etc.

Tube from Nichii
High-waist bum from Guess
Shoes from Nichii

Top from Nichii
Skirt from August 8...

.......and the shoes is Guess. It was a birthday gift from a friend.
NB: Bad lower half posture. The legs shoud not be so awkward n largely spaced from each other. What the hell, no one is perfect!

As for the belts and accessories, its just off some street shops.
Just so you know. If you are based in Malaysia, Most of your loved brands are on promotion

• Nichii has up to 70% off
• Nine West, 30% off
• Guess, up to 50%
  
  
  

You might also want to check out Night at Long Bar

Shoes

Taualii- Aldo	Black Faux Leather Cut Out Peep Toe Heels	Black Crinkle Faux Leather Interlock Shield Multi Buckle Heels	Red Crinkle Faux Leather Interlock Shield Multi Buckle Heels
Fuchsia Velvet Open Toe Gem T-Strap Heels	Purple Faux Leather Tier Stitching Shield Heels	Black Crinkle Ankle Low Heel Boot	White Faux Leather Peep Toe Mesh Lace Bootie Heels

Bags

Prada Gaufre Bags for Fall 2010	Prada - Summer's Five Beach Bags
Love Moschino soft-hearted tote bag	Lulu Guinness Black Snakeskin Lips Clutch
Mulberry - Patent Black Bayswater	Mulberry - Purple Small Emily Quilted Cross Body Bag
Love Moschino - Red Corsage Bag	Love Moschino - Small Zip Frilled Bag
Michael by Michael Kors Black Pasadena Studded Shoulder Bag	Michael by Michael Kors Grey Moxley Zipped Shoulder Bag

Night @ long bar

On saturday night, i put on my robes, ready to rock it at long bar which is @ one world hotel, one utama.

First thing i did, was to start taking some pictures. I love keeping memories of places that interest me.

exotic setting, nice cozy chairs. am a big fan of red, so the club has stolen my heart.

Nice games. You could whirle away your time dong this, while waiting for the fun to start. Or you could come with friends and play, drink some champagne at the same time listening to cool jamz!!!

It was a pretty fun night, though i had to leave early. I will definitely go back there next time, probably on thursday which is ladies night. Thumbs up to the management of long bar. Oops i realised too late that my robes were prettier without the waist belt!

One valuable lesson - just because the match doesnt mean they match on you. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror. Add more accessories or reduce some, then see the difference. Sometimes simple can be classy!

Reasons for relationships

What a year. Something has been on my mind for long. What is a relationship really about. Both girls and guys go into relationship for different reasons. As a girl, i would speak up for those in my gender. Some of these reasons include facial looks/built, love, money or the way you feel whenever you are around the person. Which reason is justifiable?

I met this guy a long time ago, he is someone who is not interesting to look at and on no occasion will i think to be friends with him. But due to the way we met, we began talking and later became friends, good friends actually. We spend days together, finish each others sentences and are never bored of one another's company. But as time went on, boys will always be boys, he had other things on his mind.

Now this boy is very rich, caring, generous, nice, funny and a very good company. Almost everything a girl will wish for as a boyfriend, and all a guy will want in a friend.Is that enough for me to be in a relationship with him. Or do i still wait for love to happen?
Love on the other hand, i dont really understand. Two people are in love and they cheat on one another, cant afford for the other person, make the other cry, even beat the partner, and all sort of things, and the other sticks all in the name of love.

The reason for one to be in a relationship cant be fathomed. Relaionship between people of the same gender and people with different genders are confusing. One wants a thing while the other wants something else. Everyone cant think or feel the same way. there is a saying that says love like you will never get hurt but whether you are in a relationship with a fellow male/female or the opposite sex. Be ready to be hurt, just have it at the back of ur mind that it can happen. So that when it does, u are not so flat on the floor, so ruined u cant get up.
As for the reason to be in a relationship, even I dont know. But be happy. Dont be too conscious of what people think, say or feel. Just do what makes you feel great, good and happy at that time.

I have to get to bed and think whether being in a relationship with this guy will make me feel happy or will it turn sour as days go by? I cant predit. Good Night!!!

Fashion & Posture

As the saying goes, ’The way you dress is the way you will be addressed’. The way you carry yourself is important to make any cloth look good on you. It contributes considerably to a good appearance. Your personality is not just made up of your looks, clothes or accessories; your posture also reflects your personality.
Here are some fashion tips for you:

1. The walk. Stand tall when walking to improve your spinal posture and prevent pain and strain in your back. When walking, try to lengthen your body by lifting the top, center of your head (This always makes you appear taller than you really are). Keep your eyes forward and remember to always hold your abdomen in. Practice putting the ball of your foot down first when making a stride, almost as if you were walking on tip-toes. This may feel weird but it will make your strides look more graceful. Place one foot literally in front of the other. Pretend you are walking in a straight line. When doing this fast it gives your body that sexy swing.

2. The Sit. Sitting upright or at an erect position. The good sitting posture is with your back flat, head up, shoulders back and stomach in. A bulging stomach is not a pleasant sight

3. Cost. I always say it is not how much it costs; it is how good it looks on you. So whether you are on a low or high budget, you can always look the best. The key here is choosing something that suits you and above all is ‘comfortable’. You don’t want to feel as if you are walking in a can. Get pretty shoes that fit and gorgeous clothes that can stretch and contract.

Story of Me

... Whoops what a good life!!! Like one third of every other human on the planet, i am always on Facebook, Myspace, Tagged, Twitter, Friendster and the whole lot, which involves meeting new people and connecting with them. But after a while, these things get boring. There was just something missing. Dont get me wrong, all these sites are great and you will definitely find me on them all day long. I spent my days searching for new things and needing more from the internet. I then learnt something. "Do not ask what the internet can do for you but what you can do for the internet".

A day came when i realised that everyone around me were blogging. Great!!! Own a blog, not so easy for me to do so. I am not so good at writing anything unless i am so interested in it. And there was the problem about the purpose of the blog. I was asked by a friend, 'What do you want your blog to be about?' A list of things was suggested such as sports, finance, news, religion, etc. And i replied, 'myself'. How will i create a blog about me??? Talking about myself day on end, I am not as vain as that.

Few days later, as i was strutting my stuff in a bright colored short gown and heels in a mall, taking in the stares that followed me from female and male alike, both married and single (Ladies, if your husband or boyfriend was there, forgive me this once ...**wink**...) A good friend of mine asked me, do you always have to be in the spotlight? I pondered on the question for a minute or two and I realised that if I am not there, then someone else would be and i will be alll there is left - a spectator. Instead of answering her, I asked her whether she likes the spotlight and she answered who wouldnt.

Funny part is that this girl is pretty. She was complaining about her little quantity of clothes, shoes and the whole lot. Wow! to my suprise, her wardrobe was twice the size of mine and she has all that could amke her look her best. Just a few mix and match, accesories, throwing in some bright colors and glasses, we went out again and i bet you, we were the centre of attention.
It all came flooding back to me. I know what i want my blog to be about, Fashion. I love taking pictures of myself and i wil share with you what fashion is in my terms.

NB: There is no right or wrong. Be you, just a great, better looking version of yourself that will make eyes turn towards you in the right way. Hope you learn a thing or two from me. I will be back with more insight into my day... tomorrow!