Reasons for relationships

What a year. Something has been on my mind for long. What is a relationship really about. Both girls and guys go into relationship for different reasons. As a girl, i would speak up for those in my gender. Some of these reasons include facial looks/built, love, money or the way you feel whenever you are around the person. Which reason is justifiable?

I met this guy a long time ago, he is someone who is not interesting to look at and on no occasion will i think to be friends with him. But due to the way we met, we began talking and later became friends, good friends actually. We spend days together, finish each others sentences and are never bored of one another's company. But as time went on, boys will always be boys, he had other things on his mind.

Now this boy is very rich, caring, generous, nice, funny and a very good company. Almost everything a girl will wish for as a boyfriend, and all a guy will want in a friend.Is that enough for me to be in a relationship with him. Or do i still wait for love to happen?
Love on the other hand, i dont really understand. Two people are in love and they cheat on one another, cant afford for the other person, make the other cry, even beat the partner, and all sort of things, and the other sticks all in the name of love.

The reason for one to be in a relationship cant be fathomed. Relaionship between people of the same gender and people with different genders are confusing. One wants a thing while the other wants something else. Everyone cant think or feel the same way. there is a saying that says love like you will never get hurt but whether you are in a relationship with a fellow male/female or the opposite sex. Be ready to be hurt, just have it at the back of ur mind that it can happen. So that when it does, u are not so flat on the floor, so ruined u cant get up.
As for the reason to be in a relationship, even I dont know. But be happy. Dont be too conscious of what people think, say or feel. Just do what makes you feel great, good and happy at that time.

I have to get to bed and think whether being in a relationship with this guy will make me feel happy or will it turn sour as days go by? I cant predit. Good Night!!!